The problem with Accepting Advice from too many sources …


My question for you is this… How many of the people constantly giving you marital advice have actually had themselves restored and then their marriage?
No disrespect intended to anyone… But many are in the place of brokenness and broken marriage themselves because of opinions (theirs, Moms, Dads, Sisters, Brothers, Aunties, Uncles, Friends, Coworkers, even Pastors). 
The fact is that marriage restoration is actually about our individual healing and eventually the rest will follow. Each restoration comes with its own set of unique steps to be accomplished, with ingredients to be added or elements to be removed. A formula only Holy Spirit holds; the secret to yours. 
Nothing wrong with seeking advice, just know those who you are seeking direction from. One to three close prayer warriors willing to go before the Father on your behalf that have walked the path of restoration AND have a successful testimony, could possibly give you tried and tested solutions. But then even those should be second in nature only to Abba, who knows the end from the beginning and what is completely necessary for YOUR restoration. 
Having said that, if your spouse is now willing to allow a minimal friendship without strings and laid out plans for how it will turn out, gives you both freedom to continue to grow in Christ while allowing Holy Spirit to do THE WORK NECESSARY. 
How do I know? I have gone this way twice now. Once reserving a small portion of the outcome to my actions and once in total surrender. The latter has held out to be the answer, the former was reconciled but eventually ended in divorce and 11 yrs later is STILL dealing with me & our children in an ugly manner. 
Be #UNCHNED from natural ways.🔐 Let Jesus Set You & Your Marriage Supernaturally  FREE~N~THEE! ❤

Choose Life…

​I was asked to respond to the following question… Do you go to hell if you commit suicide? (I DO NOT SUGGEST IT. This is MY opinion/ understanding. YOUR opinion/ understanding can be mentioned on YOUR social media site. THANK YOU in advance for #respecting #MY #wall.)
The “#ONLY” unforgivable sin is #blasphemy of the #Holy #Spirit. 

(Your perception of that is between YOU and GOD)
I base my response on several scriptures… 

According to Mark 3:28&29 (AMP) – 28 Truly and solemnly I say to you, all sins will be forgiven the sons of men, and whatever abusive and blasphemous things they utter; 29 But whoever #speaks abusively against or maliciously #misrepresents the Holy Spirit can #never get forgiveness, but is guilty of and is in the grasp of [i]an everlasting trespass.
Let’s look at it in Matthew 12:30-32 (TPT) – 30 “So join with me, for if you’re not on my side you are against me. And if you refuse to help me gather the spoils, you are making things worse. 31 This is why I warn you, for God will forgive people for every sin and blasphemy they have committed#except one. There is no forgiveness for the sin of blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. 32 If anyone speaks evil of me, the Son of Man, he can be forgiven: but if anyone contemptuously speaks against the Holy Spirit, it will never be forgiven, now or ever.”
But the above scriptures do not apply if you are not a born-again/ baptized follower of Jesus Christ. The word tells us in John 3:5 (TPT) – Jesus answered, “I speak an eternal truth: Unless you are born of water #and Spirit-wind, you will never enter the kingdom realm of God. John 3:16 (TPT) – For this is how much God loved the world – he gave his uniquely conceived Son as a gift. So now everyone who believes in him will never perish but experience life. Hebrews 10:14-17 (TPT) – And by his one perfect sacrifice he made us perfectly holy and complete for all time! 15 The Holy Spirit confirms this to us by this Scripture, for the Lord says, 16 Afterwards, I will give them this covenant: I will embed my laws into their hearts And fasten my Word to their thoughts.” 17 And then he says, “I will not ever again Remember their sins and lawless deeds!”
 It is important to understand that in any relationship, communication is a MUST. How can you have a relationship if you don’t speak to Abba Father? Jesus Christ? Holy Spirit? One of the main ways the God-head speaks to us is through the written word. So if you what to know what a person is about you study them… what are their likes and dislikes, what is their nature, character, temperament, etc… so my question then would be how would a person expect to know anything about God unless they study what God says? What pleases GOD? What displeases GOD? What GOD expects from me? The bible tells us in 2 Timothy 2:15 (AMP) – 15 Study and be eager and do your utmost to present yourself to God approved (tested by trial), a workman who has no cause to be ashamed, correctly analyzing and accurately dividing [rightly handling and skillfully teaching] the Word of Truth. So in fact it is a requirement on our part to get to know God throughout the scriptures (His written word) if we are to have a relationship with HIM.
What God wants MOST from YOU and I is… RELATIONSHIP!!! Other ways we communicate with God, Jesus and The Holy Spirit is through Praise (Speaking, Singing and Humming words of Thanksgiving to the Father), Worship (Adoring Him Outloud; I Love You, Papa, I Need You Holy Spirit to direct me, I Bless YOU JESUS, I give you Praise, I Honor You, Lord!) Seeking after what pleases Him and in that ALL of YOUR wants and needs will be meet.
People that take their lives and ARE NOT born-again WILL LIVE IN HELL FOR ETERNITY. People that take their lives and ARE BORN-AGAIN are under an attack of the enemy and they lost the battle, #but #their #soul is NOT LOST, it was already pledged to JESUS. As we spend more and more real time with the Lord, the Holy Spirit, will speak ALL hidden (secret) things to us and the desire to want to end our lives prematurely is less likely. God has a plan and a purpose for ALL of our lives. It is NEVER His hope or intention for ANYONE to take the life HE gave #prematurely. If someone dies in what we consider “young” we must remember that person was HIS “child” first and even though we may not understand why, it is God who brings ALL things into existence and His set time, for His Purpose, that our lives one day will be no more, in this life as we know it, but our decision to accept HIS SON JESUS CHRIST or not, determines where we spend eternity… HEAVEN OR HELL. That is YOUR CHOICE. He wants that ALL would be with Him, but He will not force his plan on YOU.
We have to be built up in the Word of God ourselves, depending on another’s opinion or understanding (Grandma, Grandpa, Mom, Dad, or even respected Pastor/ Priest) of the word is not good enough. Nor can we pick and choose which scriptures sound pleasing to our ears. It is important to know and understand what the scripture is referring to before and after a verse and what the time frame and context was/ is. This was done, so that any common person would perceive by the Holy Spirit and the “scholar’s” or high and mighty would not be able to figure God out without the Spirit of God living in the inside of them. 
In His Love, A-M 

#UNCHNED @ WIL.4tha.SON Ministries <{{{><

Milk, Potato or Steak… Relationship


1) When you were a baby/ toddler, your parent would keep things in order/ picked up around you, so you would not get hurt (MILK).

2) As you grew into a child/ teenager, your parent started to expect more from you such as cleaning your room & light chores (POTATOES).

3) Once you become an adult you are pretty much expected to take care of the bills you acquire, only needing assistance from time to time (MEAT).

***Why would we think the Father deals with us any different?
***Where did you think that pattern originated?

1) As a babe in Christ, the blessings flow almost without effort until you can CRAWL (MILK).

2) As a child/ teenager, Holy Spirit is starting to require us to do our part, Study His Word and Fellowship while we WALK (POTATOES).

3) As an adult, Abba is expecting you to be able to RUN & WAGE WAR/ DISCIPLE (MEAT).




The Immutability of Yahweh…




HEBREWS 6:17-20 (KJV)
17 Wherein God, willing more abundantly to shew unto the heirs of promise the immutability of his counsel, confirmed it by an oath:

18 That by two immutable things, in which it was impossible for God to lie, we might have a strong consolation, who have fled for refuge to lay hold upon the hope set before us:

19 Which hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and stedfast, and which entereth into that within the veil;

20 Whither the forerunner is for us entered, even Jesus, made an high priest for ever after the order of Melchisedec.



1 CORINTHIANS 11:23-32 (KJV)
23 For I have received of the Lord that which also I delivered unto you, that the Lord Jesus the same night in which he was betrayed took bread:

24 And when he had given thanks, he brake it, and said, Take, eat: this is my body, which is broken for you: this do in remembrance of me.

25 After the same manner also he took the cup, when he had supped, saying, this cup is the new testament in my blood: this do ye, as oft as ye drink it, in remembrance of me.

26 For as often as ye eat this bread, and drink this cup, ye do shew the Lord’s death till he come.

27 Wherefore whosoever shall eat this bread, and drink this cup of the Lord, unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord.

28 But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of that cup.

29 For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord’s body.

30 ‪#‎For‬ ‪#‎this‬ ‪#‎cause‬ ‪#‎many‬ ‪#‎are‬ ‪#‎weak‬ and ‪#‎sickly‬ ‪#‎among‬ ‪#‎you‬, and #many ‪#‎sleep‬ (aka dead).

31 For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged.

32 But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world.


Holding Onto Unforgiveness…


Definition of Unforgiveness:
Holding a grudge against someone who has offended you.

When I see post of people justifying ‪#‎unforgiveness‬ it saddens me greatly. I see anger, hurt, resentment and bitterness all working against the simple act of ‪#‎forgiveness‬.

In the beginning of my stand for personal healing, marriage & family restoration, no one asked me to forgive them for what part they may have played in the breakdown of my personal relationship with Christ, then marriage, family and eventually ministry. My husband, children and parents certainly thought they had done NOTHING WRONG. Yet, in my choosing to forgive them before the Father, as Christ did, our example, “FORGIVE THEM FATHER, THEY ‪#‎KNOW‬ ‪#‎NOT‬ WHAT THEY DO”, I began to break FREE. Free to love myself again. In time each lost relationship has or is being restored.

WHY? Because, when we choose to focus on the grace and mercy of God (that we did not deserve), we are able to show others that same love of mercy. This does not mean you allow others to destroy you through their actions, deeds and words (or lack thereof), but what it does mean is you choose to love yourself more than choosing to find every reason and bible verse (taken out of context) not to forgive and begin pressing through FOR YOUR HEALING.

Matthew 18:33, “Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellow-servant, even as I had pity on thee?”


Raise a child up in the Way it should go…

(This is not going to be a popular word, but a soon reality)

Luciferian Indoctrination is growing stronger against the “Nation of God” (Body of Christ) . We are commanded in Proverbs 22:6 (KJV) to… “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

Many in the USA, do not know that what they think is “Child Protective Service” (aka CPS, DFCS, DSS, CASA, Dept of Education, HIPPA in regards to children and many other agencies and laws) is the enemies plan that has been instituted to sever the family unit.

WAKE UP CHURCH! We are the Nation of God… CALLED and SET APART for SUCH A TIME AS THIS!!!

We were entrusted, our children, God’s most precious Gift, to steward well for HIS SAKE, NOT just to play house and please our own selfish desires. Train your children well, to depend solely on God. The day is coming, in this country, when you will NOT have the opportunity to direct them further. Their lives could change drastically overnight and when you are not able to direct them because ‪#‎Government‬ has taken that right away, you will want to KNOW THAT you gave them ALL the knowledge of the Lord Jesus you HAD (SAMuels SafeHaven).

Children of all ages need Instruction and Encouragement in the Ways of God… That is YOUR Job!!! Unchain your Children from the foolish ways of the World, through the Word of God.

Jeremiah 4:22 (AMP)
22 “For My people are stupid and foolish,” [says the Lord to Jeremiah]; “They do not know Me; They are foolish children
And have no understanding. They are shrewd [enough] to do evil,
But they do not know [how] to do good.”

John 15:18-21 (AMP)
18 “If the world hates you [and it does], know that it has hated Me before it hated you. 19 If you belonged to the world, the world would love [you as] its own and would treat you with affection. But you are not of the world [you no longer belong to it], but I have chosen you out of the world. And because of this the world hates you. 20 Remember [and continue to remember] that I told you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also. 21 But they will do all these [hurtful] things to you for My name’s sake [because you bear My name and are identified with Me], for they do not know the One who sent Me.

2 Corinthians 10:3-13 (AMP)
3 For though we walk in the flesh [as mortal men], we are not carrying on our [spiritual] warfare according to the flesh and using the weapons of man. 4 The weapons of our warfare are not physical [weapons of flesh and blood]. Our weapons are divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. 5 We are destroying sophisticated arguments and every exalted and proud thing that sets itself up against the [true] knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought and purpose captive to the obedience of Christ, 6 being ready to punish every act of disobedience, when your own obedience [as a church] is complete. 7 You are looking [only] at the outward appearance of things. If anyone is confident that he is Christ’s, he should reflect and consider this, that just as he is Christ’s, so too are we. 8 For even though I boast rather freely about the authority the Lord gave us for building you up and not for destroying you, I will not be ashamed [of the truth], 9 nor do I want to seem to be trying to frighten you with my letters; 10 for they say, “His letters are weighty and forceful and impressive, but his [a]personal presence is unimpressive and his speech contemptible [of no account].” 11 Let such people realize that what we say by word in letters when we are absent, is the same as what we are in action when present. 12 We do not have the audacity to put ourselves in the same class or compare ourselves with some who [supply testimonials to] commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they lack wisdom and behave like fools. 13 We, on the other hand, will not boast beyond our proper limit, but [will keep] within the [b]limits of our commission (territory, authority) which God has granted to us as a measure, which reaches and includes even you.


Happiness comes from within…


Chain Breakers we only have one life to honor God with…
God did not place us here to be unhappy…
Living our lives without happiness is #dishonoring GOD.
Our happiness was never intended to come from others. God is the only real source of happiness. If we are unhappy, it’s because WE are not choosing to keep our eyes stayed on Thee. (ISAIAH 26:3)
ISAIAH 26:3 (KJV) says, “Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.”
“Thou = “GOD
wilt = WILL
him = _________ (YOUR NAME)
whose = WHEN
mind = __________’s MIND
on thee: = ON GOD:
because = ___________ DOES THIS BECAUSE
he = ____________
trusteth = TRUST
in thee.” = GOD!!!”
Do you want to die an unhappy person waiting on someone else to make you happy or for them to find happiness themselves? It is not your cross to bear to “make” another happy. True happiness only comes from God. Always putting the needs of another above your own needs out of fear is idolatry (thoughts of: they might leave you or what will they do without me or what if this or that happens)… YOU ARE NOT THEIR GOD and are in turn attempting to play god (witchcraft).
What will your response be when God asks you why did you not enjoy your life? How sad it will be to respond, “Well God, I was waiting on my spouse, my child, my parent to be happy, rather than being happy in what Jesus accomplished for me on the cross.”
What if these same people may be watching and waiting on you to take the next step of faith… to trust God and choose to be happy regardless of some else’s choice? What if your fears are keeping others from moving forward?
If you would just #CHOOSE GOD, the rest will line up… CHOOSE YOU THIS DAY WHOM YOU WILL SERVE… Drawing healthy boundaries, for yourself is not being selfish, it is being WISE.
Be #UNCHNED from self-defeat.