I Hear Testimony Chains Breaking…

It’s my desire to give gifts to others throughout the year, but often impossible to give to everyone. This morning in my time with the Lord, He showed me a way that I can give a simple gift of suggestion to each one of you.

Several years after deliverance from my awful past of drug abuse. I was spending to much time looking back on the previous 8 yrs and beating myself up for all of the poor choices I had made. I think we all have been subject to the enemy making us feel we wasted so many years. To the point of questioning, how could we ever leave a legacy for our children and our children’s children?

During my time #STANDING for MARRIAGE RESTORATION and TOTAL FAMILY RESTORATION, I never forget Holy Spirit showing me that if He was able to get through to my stubborn self, why would I then think He couldn’t get through to my husband and family?
It was then that I made a conscience effort to start sharing what I hear Holy Spirit speak in our time together.

But why? Why would a come to a public forum to share my ugly past? I was quickly reminded of a scripture I read when I first came back to the Lord. Revelation 12:11.

It is in sharing that I have found freedom and the desire to never go back to using to cover up my pain. Each step I have taken to expose myself to the opinions of others has allowed the Lord to add another link to my chain. Giving enough slack that eventually would allow him to BREAK THE CHAINS that have held me captive; from walking in complete and total victory.

Maybe you are one like I was, that had so many hidden secrets that exposing yourself would cause others to turn from you? I determined that freeing myself from my past and allowing myself to be me (whether or not others approved), was much more important to my continuous growth and advancement in the Kingdom of God. Telling on myself (truth) was actually necessary to still and stop the enemy from advancing in my life.

My gift to each of you this year is a gift the Lord gave all of us…
HIS WORD and the ability to share it with others. I’m not suggesting you tell your past to the point that you harm others. What I am suggesting is transparency. Allowing others to see and understand they’re not alone. We all have fallen and made mistakes… BUT we can get back up and be a positive influence in the lives of others.
The only thing worse than falling is allowing others to believe you have never fallen. ONLY JESUS WAS PERFECT AND LED A PERFECT LIFE.

Give those in your realm of influence, an open door to see you weren’t always a wonderful person. BUT a person with issues just like everyone else. When we have been freed up from our old foolish ways it is our job to teach the younger generation that GETTING UP IS POSSIBLE. It takes a conscience effort and a willingness to expose ourselves to people that may not still want to be acquainted with us because we fell back.


#PayItForward and Be #UNCHNED

Revelation 12:7-11 (NLT)

7 Then there was war in heaven. Michael and his angels fought against the dragon and his angels. 8 And the dragon lost the battle, and he and his angels were forced out of heaven. 9 This great dragon—the ancient serpent called the devil, or Satan, the one deceiving the whole world—was thrown down to the earth with all his angels.

10 Then I heard a loud voice shouting across the heavens,
“It has come at last—
salvation and power
and the Kingdom of our God,
and the authority of his Christ.a
For the accuser of our brothers and sisters
has been thrown down to earth—
the one who accuses them
before our God day and night.

11And they have defeated him by the blood of the Lamb
and by their testimony.
And they did not love their lives so much
that they were afraid to die.


Chains of Sexual Perversion Breaking…

(If you are not a born-again, spirit-filled, Child of the Most High God, this post is NOT directed at you and DOES NOT PERTAIN TO YOU. BUT, the written word of God is definitely for ALL that have chosen to receive Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior)

How sad to see someone “come out” on social media, OR sharing the fact that they are having children out of wedlock, OR sharing that they are involved in extra martial affairs (which by-the-way all of these are a cry for help) and not attempting to encourage them in the things of God, OR liking their status update concerning these things… which is your agreement with their sin. These people have deep rooted issues and your not helping them. On the other hand, if you yourself are not living a life of righteousness unto the Lord, why would you encourage them in the will and way of God?

As a child, I use to go crabbing every summer back home in Maryland. I am reminded, of how crabs in a bushel interact. When one attempts to climb to the top and find a way out, not one of the other crabs is concerned until they reach the top and then try to break free. All the sudden every crab in the bushel reaches up to pull that one back down.


I suggest you take a good hard look at those coming into agreement with you… telling you they love you no matter what, how proud of you they are, etc… All that sounds good, until you come back to the reality that God is not pleased with sin. If He said, He does not like it, then HE DOES NOT APPROVE OF IT. This is not an issue of whether or not your family/ friends love you. When someone makes you #aware that an action is sinful (aka against God), #THAT#IS #LOVE.

One must question themselves, when others come quickly to pet you and your sin (don’t think you are under no obligation to be your brothers/ sisters keeper. OR that trying to make that person “feel” loved is all they need). THEY NEED A REAL RELATIONSHIP WITH THE LORD, NOT A RELATIONSHIP OF PLEASING THE FLESH OR OTHERS.


BTW… I was caught up in most of the sins listed above and below in the word, at one time or another. The one reason I can talk about it openly today is that JESUS in my life Full-Time now and has made a TURNAROUND difference in my life. I’m not perfect, but in HIM I am being perfected. The time I spend one on one, with the Lord Jesus, has made positive change in my life and that is my hope for each one that reads this and may be offended. Sexual Perversion is similar to other giants we must deal with in life (such as addiction). This too can be overcome, but one thing is for sure, you have to choose to deny your flesh and obey God, rather than please self.


1 Corinthians 6 (NLT)

Avoiding Lawsuits with Christians
6 When one of you has a dispute with another believer, how dare you file a lawsuit and ask a secular court to decide the matter instead of taking it to other believers[a]!

2 Don’t you realize that someday we believers will judge the world? And since you are going to judge the world, can’t you decide even these little things among yourselves? 3 Don’t you realize that we will judge angels? So you should surely be able to resolve ordinary disputes in this life. 4 If you have legal disputes about such matters, why go to outside judges who are not respected by the church? 5 I am saying this to shame you. Isn’t there anyone in all the church who is wise enough to decide these issues? 6 But instead, one believer[b] sues another—right in front of unbelievers!

7 Even to have such lawsuits with one another is a defeat for you. Why not just accept the injustice and leave it at that? Why not let yourselves be cheated? 8 Instead, you yourselves are the ones who do wrong and cheat even your fellow believers.[c]

9 Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, 10 or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people—none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God. 11 Some of you were once like that. But you were cleansed; you were made holy; you were made right with God by calling on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

Avoiding Sexual Sin
12 You say, “I am allowed to do anything”—but not everything is good for you. And even though “I am allowed to do anything,” I must not become a slave to anything. 13 You say, “Food was made for the stomach, and the stomach for food.” (This is true, though someday God will do away with both of them.) But you can’t say that our bodies were made for sexual immorality. They were made for the Lord, and the Lord cares about our bodies. 14 And God will raise us from the dead by his power, just as he raised our Lord from the dead.

15 Don’t you realize that your bodies are actually parts of Christ? Should a man take his body, which is part of Christ, and join it to a prostitute? Never! 16 And don’t you realize that if a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? For the Scriptures say, “The two are united into one.”[d] 17 But the person who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with him.

18 Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body. 19 Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, 20 for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.

Chain Breakers…


Your gonna be #Sorry

when you figure out The Game of #Life

was full of #Clues.

There is a #Monopoly 

trying to sink your #Battleship

Yet you #Scrabble 

when your #InAPickle

like a #BarrelofMonkeys.


is that once you stop being #Mad 

and #Connect 

that God, Jesus & Holy Spirit, are your numero #UNO 

and they are the only ones that are willing to help you #PickUpTheSticks 

and perform the #Operation 

for your #Trouble.


I’m Just Sayin, #TimesUp


stop playin’ #CHARADES 

and be #UNCHNED!!!



The problem with Accepting Advice from too many sources …


My question for you is this… How many of the people constantly giving you marital advice have actually had themselves restored and then their marriage?
No disrespect intended to anyone… But many are in the place of brokenness and broken marriage themselves because of opinions (theirs, Moms, Dads, Sisters, Brothers, Aunties, Uncles, Friends, Coworkers, even Pastors). 
The fact is that marriage restoration is actually about our individual healing and eventually the rest will follow. Each restoration comes with its own set of unique steps to be accomplished, with ingredients to be added or elements to be removed. A formula only Holy Spirit holds; the secret to yours. 
Nothing wrong with seeking advice, just know those who you are seeking direction from. One to three close prayer warriors willing to go before the Father on your behalf that have walked the path of restoration AND have a successful testimony, could possibly give you tried and tested solutions. But then even those should be second in nature only to Abba, who knows the end from the beginning and what is completely necessary for YOUR restoration. 
Having said that, if your spouse is now willing to allow a minimal friendship without strings and laid out plans for how it will turn out, gives you both freedom to continue to grow in Christ while allowing Holy Spirit to do THE WORK NECESSARY. 
How do I know? I have gone this way twice now. Once reserving a small portion of the outcome to my actions and once in total surrender. The latter has held out to be the answer, the former was reconciled but eventually ended in divorce and 11 yrs later is STILL dealing with me & our children in an ugly manner. 
Be #UNCHNED from natural ways.🔐 Let Jesus Set You & Your Marriage Supernaturally  FREE~N~THEE! ❤

Choose Life…

​I was asked to respond to the following question… Do you go to hell if you commit suicide? (I DO NOT SUGGEST IT. This is MY opinion/ understanding. YOUR opinion/ understanding can be mentioned on YOUR social media site. THANK YOU in advance for #respecting #MY #wall.)
The “#ONLY” unforgivable sin is #blasphemy of the #Holy #Spirit. 

(Your perception of that is between YOU and GOD)
I base my response on several scriptures… 

According to Mark 3:28&29 (AMP) – 28 Truly and solemnly I say to you, all sins will be forgiven the sons of men, and whatever abusive and blasphemous things they utter; 29 But whoever #speaks abusively against or maliciously #misrepresents the Holy Spirit can #never get forgiveness, but is guilty of and is in the grasp of [i]an everlasting trespass.
Let’s look at it in Matthew 12:30-32 (TPT) – 30 “So join with me, for if you’re not on my side you are against me. And if you refuse to help me gather the spoils, you are making things worse. 31 This is why I warn you, for God will forgive people for every sin and blasphemy they have committed#except one. There is no forgiveness for the sin of blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. 32 If anyone speaks evil of me, the Son of Man, he can be forgiven: but if anyone contemptuously speaks against the Holy Spirit, it will never be forgiven, now or ever.”
But the above scriptures do not apply if you are not a born-again/ baptized follower of Jesus Christ. The word tells us in John 3:5 (TPT) – Jesus answered, “I speak an eternal truth: Unless you are born of water #and Spirit-wind, you will never enter the kingdom realm of God. John 3:16 (TPT) – For this is how much God loved the world – he gave his uniquely conceived Son as a gift. So now everyone who believes in him will never perish but experience life. Hebrews 10:14-17 (TPT) – And by his one perfect sacrifice he made us perfectly holy and complete for all time! 15 The Holy Spirit confirms this to us by this Scripture, for the Lord says, 16 Afterwards, I will give them this covenant: I will embed my laws into their hearts And fasten my Word to their thoughts.” 17 And then he says, “I will not ever again Remember their sins and lawless deeds!”
 It is important to understand that in any relationship, communication is a MUST. How can you have a relationship if you don’t speak to Abba Father? Jesus Christ? Holy Spirit? One of the main ways the God-head speaks to us is through the written word. So if you what to know what a person is about you study them… what are their likes and dislikes, what is their nature, character, temperament, etc… so my question then would be how would a person expect to know anything about God unless they study what God says? What pleases GOD? What displeases GOD? What GOD expects from me? The bible tells us in 2 Timothy 2:15 (AMP) – 15 Study and be eager and do your utmost to present yourself to God approved (tested by trial), a workman who has no cause to be ashamed, correctly analyzing and accurately dividing [rightly handling and skillfully teaching] the Word of Truth. So in fact it is a requirement on our part to get to know God throughout the scriptures (His written word) if we are to have a relationship with HIM.
What God wants MOST from YOU and I is… RELATIONSHIP!!! Other ways we communicate with God, Jesus and The Holy Spirit is through Praise (Speaking, Singing and Humming words of Thanksgiving to the Father), Worship (Adoring Him Outloud; I Love You, Papa, I Need You Holy Spirit to direct me, I Bless YOU JESUS, I give you Praise, I Honor You, Lord!) Seeking after what pleases Him and in that ALL of YOUR wants and needs will be meet.
People that take their lives and ARE NOT born-again WILL LIVE IN HELL FOR ETERNITY. People that take their lives and ARE BORN-AGAIN are under an attack of the enemy and they lost the battle, #but #their #soul is NOT LOST, it was already pledged to JESUS. As we spend more and more real time with the Lord, the Holy Spirit, will speak ALL hidden (secret) things to us and the desire to want to end our lives prematurely is less likely. God has a plan and a purpose for ALL of our lives. It is NEVER His hope or intention for ANYONE to take the life HE gave #prematurely. If someone dies in what we consider “young” we must remember that person was HIS “child” first and even though we may not understand why, it is God who brings ALL things into existence and His set time, for His Purpose, that our lives one day will be no more, in this life as we know it, but our decision to accept HIS SON JESUS CHRIST or not, determines where we spend eternity… HEAVEN OR HELL. That is YOUR CHOICE. He wants that ALL would be with Him, but He will not force his plan on YOU.
We have to be built up in the Word of God ourselves, depending on another’s opinion or understanding (Grandma, Grandpa, Mom, Dad, or even respected Pastor/ Priest) of the word is not good enough. Nor can we pick and choose which scriptures sound pleasing to our ears. It is important to know and understand what the scripture is referring to before and after a verse and what the time frame and context was/ is. This was done, so that any common person would perceive by the Holy Spirit and the “scholar’s” or high and mighty would not be able to figure God out without the Spirit of God living in the inside of them. 
In His Love, A-M 

#UNCHNED @ WIL.4tha.SON Ministries <{{{><


Milk, Potato or Steak… Relationship


1) When you were a baby/ toddler, your parent would keep things in order/ picked up around you, so you would not get hurt (MILK).

2) As you grew into a child/ teenager, your parent started to expect more from you such as cleaning your room & light chores (POTATOES).

3) Once you become an adult you are pretty much expected to take care of the bills you acquire, only needing assistance from time to time (MEAT).

***Why would we think the Father deals with us any different?
***Where did you think that pattern originated?

1) As a babe in Christ, the blessings flow almost without effort until you can CRAWL (MILK).

2) As a child/ teenager, Holy Spirit is starting to require us to do our part, Study His Word and Fellowship while we WALK (POTATOES).

3) As an adult, Abba is expecting you to be able to RUN & WAGE WAR/ DISCIPLE (MEAT).