2 Chronicles 7:13-15


God’s Promise and Warning – 2 Chronicles 7:13-15
…13″If I shut up the heavens so that there is no rain, or if I command the locust to devour the land, or if I send pestilence among My people, 14and My people who are called by My name humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 15″Now My eyes will be open and My ears attentive to the prayer offered in this place.

Many believe that this has to do with a Nation of people and that is correct. It also has to do with us as the body of Christ. If we would humble ourselves as the vessel of God, PRAY, seek an intimate relationship with Jesus, allow Jesus to do a work in and through us, turn from what’s not been working and listen to HIS nudging, then… THEN HE WILL HEAR FROM HEAVEN, HE WILL FORGIVE THE UGLY IN THE MARRIAGE AND THEN HE WILL HEAL THE MARRIAGE YOU WERE PROMISED IN THE BEGINNING.

Stop complaining about all that your spouse has done, is doing, their short-comings, their failures, stop pointing the finger at them. Ask God to search YOU and see what needs correcting in YOU. Ask Him to remove whatever is in YOU that is lacking or doesn’t line up with HIS word. Often times WE tie the Lords hands with our own words and/ or actions. Let Him Love You and Heal You and Mold You… into the spouse God needs You to be, In Jesus Name I Pray. ‪#‎UNCHNED‬

Reconciled Through Relationship


We all have days that we are off. Today, as I awoke I didn’t feel quite like myself. When we pour out to others we have to refill. Quickly going to the word in search of a rhema word, this is the word he gives me. In turn, I give TO ALL OF YOU.


Restoration starts with our relationship with the Father and continues a lifetime. Until our relationship with the Father is full in Christ, the rest won’t be complete (hence, false starts). Praying for complete restoration of each of you, so that you can press through to the restoration of your marriage.
‪#‎UNCHNED‬ by the Unmerited Favor of God (Grace), through Jesus Christ, by His Holy Spirit.


Blinders/ Scales

Let us remember saints, that our mates can’t see when they have blinders or scales over their eyes. Don’t think because it is obvious to you or others, that they realize it too. Repent of any judgement towards them or the ow/om. Pray that God still heals the sick (that is what we are dealing with here). A spirit of sickness and disease that has crept into the marriage. BUT FEAR NOT JESUS ALREADY ACCOMPLISHED YOUR PARTICULAR MARRIAGE’S ILLNESS ON THE CROSS (Isaish 53:4&5, 1 Peter 2:24) DRAW FROM WHAT HE ALREADY TOOK STRIPES FOR…

Dear Jesus

Hurts, Disappointment, Resentment, Anger, Strife, Fornication before the vows, Adultery since the vows, and the likes thereof. Remember Jesus said, IT IS FINISHED!!!

Jesus Dies On The Cross

He is NOT going to die again for our situation, HE ALREADY DID!!  ‪#‎UNCHNED‬ <{{{><

Tricks and Lies


Many of us are tricked or have been tricked by the lies of satan. Often, the thought comes, that I don’t need this in my life anymore, or I can’t do this, or it’s too hard, or I don’t know why you put up with this, that or the other, or they don’t care about me or they would change, etc… We end up thinking on things that don’t line up with what God says and before we know it we are acting on the very thoughts we have been meditating on. It is our job to come against, the wiles, lies and deceit of the enemy with Gods word and in some cases we are at the point where we have to do this without our spouse in agreement, but just know… God is part of the union and he will agree with you and His Word. The fact that you are reading this tells me you are a fighter and strong, a fierce warrior and warriors don’t give up. God says, he will fight our battles for us. 2 Chron. 20:17-20. Don’t give up the fight, just change positions, let God be in the lead, get behind him with His Word and PUSH THROUGH!! You Can Do This, You Are Stronger Than You Think!! ‪#‎UNCHNED‬

Excuses, Excuses


#‎Rationalization‬ & ‪#‎Justification‬ for your sin is satans ‪#‎substitute‬ for ‪#‎repentance‬.

Excuses I’ve heard:
– He or She left me.
– They don’t care anymore.
– I’ve done all I can do or care to do.
– God hasn’t done what I asked him to do.
– But they have serious issues.
– They shouldn’t have done that.
– That was wrong of them.
***Don’t fall short of what God requires of you because of someone else’s sin, because that in itself is sin.***
Who are you to reject another because of a choice they made? ‪#‎God‬gave each of us our own free will. ‪#‎Jesus‬ gave us a NEW commandment… To love one another as I have loved you. If Jesus forgave your sin why won’t you forgive another. True Love is hitting your knee’s for another. Asking ‪#‎The‬ ‪#‎Holy‬ ‪#‎Spirit‬ to show another person their sin, so they won’t fall short of the glory of God and be spewed out of His mouth on judgement day. PLEASE remember to first to repent of your own sins. ‪#‎UNCHNED‬

You Must Be Born Again


I feel a strong sense to share what I believe he is giving me this morning. The word tells you that in order to enter the Kingdom Family of God, you must be born again, made into a new creation through Christ shedding of his blood. Marriage was created to strengthen the believer and to share the calling and purpose of Gods plan. Several times throughout his word we find that two are better than one. We see that one can put a thousand to flight, but two can put ten-thousand to flight. When a marriage is not fulfilling the purpose and plan for God it is in need of restoration, it is like a born again experience for the marriage union. God was purifying my husband and I separately. We each were dealing with our disappointments in the marriage, but secretly still hoping God would fix what was broken.

Example: My husband and I were believer’s when we married, but our union was not totally fulfilling his purpose and plan. We both needed to individually be cleansed (or polished) in HIM, to the point that divorce was being sought (we had stinking thinking, if nothing else). Through what looked in the natural to be a mess, would turn out to be a message for the honor and glory of God. By allowing God, to do the work needed in me and trusting he would be able to reach my husband who was then an over-the-road truck driver and traveled all 50 states. Of course, satan had to do his work to attempt to deceive us. He would imply that my husband was in some other state and since I could not oversee things he was not going to ever change his mind about the divorce. My husband recalls thinking that I would never change. As the stander, It was my job to trust that no matter where my husband was the Holy Spirit was able to work on his hardened heart and remove the things in me that needed to go.

I want to encourage you today, that your stand can be looked at and rehearsed, believing the lie, that your may not ever be restored (the what if’s). But if you will view the restoration process through the eyes of God creating something NEW & IMPROVED and place your hope in him, not yourself, you will start to see the light and life of God, in this valley of death.

In His Presence, ‪#‎UNCHNED‬ @ WIL.4tha.SON Ministries

Your “Trust” Muscle

EXERCISE FOR STANDERS: I don’t know how long each of you have been standing, but I want you to try this. Try not to focus so much on getting your marriage back but every time you find you are focusing on what your mate is thinking, doing or wondering how much longer will this take, switch your thought to falling in love with Jesus – making HIM your husbandman. Restoration is about restoring our relationship with God first, then our mate. He works on us individually to prepare us to come back together. Journal what you are learning, what God is doing in and through you, what he is showing you. If you feel comfortable sharing, it would be exciting to read comments of how your work-out is going, what you learned, how this helped, your growth in an area, whatever positive changes are taking place (big or small).‪#‎UNCHNED‬

No Respecter of Persons…


God is no respecter of persons. If he did it for me and many others, HE WILL do it for you too. Stay focused on him, not the faults in the marriage. Let him work on you, don’t worry about what he is doing in and through your spouse. You must know that as the Holy Spirit is nudging you, he is also able to nudge your spouse. It may take time, that’s why he doesn’t give you a time frame. If some of us only knew what all we would have to endure we would throw up our hands and quit. He doesn’t give you a time frame, because he wants you to win, in trusting only HIM. Remember, this thing is bigger than both of you. It’s a spiritual battle. ‪#‎UNCHNED‬‪ #‎PressIn‬ ‪#‎PushThrough‬ ‪#‎YourTurnAroundWillCome‬

Having Done All ~ STAND!!!

When God allows one door to close, he always opens another. Finally breakthrough!!! I got a job today with Red Roof Inn, Front Desk and Audit. Working towards Management. It’s on the bus line, so I have transportation. I was suppose to be late because of some things that took place this morning. BUT GOD, provided a ride to the doorstep of my interview, 45 mins early…when I was concerned about being able to get there by bus on time. Then my boss showed me such favor she blessed me with a higher hourly wage that the others don’t get. I stayed all day with her, she wanted to make sure all of my paperwork was completed correctly, saying the other employees are probably wondering why she is meeting with me for so long. THEN, with all the changes going on in our government concerning FT/PT work and healthcare, she made sure that she was making me a FT Employee!!! Then took me out to eat lunch, my favorite food…MEXICAN. picked up the tab, and then gave me a ride back home to my doorstep. Now, how can anyone say or think, that God isn’t in control. I give him all the praise, honor and glory, for opening the door to my new life. This all comes after Hall County allowed Will to divorce me yesterday. But what the Lord keeps showing me is:

Jeremiah 29:11 – NIV
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Proverbs 19:21 – Aramaic Bible in Plain English (©2010)
Many are the thoughts in the heart of a man, and the counsel of Lord Jehovah will be confirmed.

Matthew 19:6 – New Living Translation (©2007)
Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.

Hebrews 13:17 ESV
Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, AS THOSE WHO WILL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT.

Acts 5:29 ESV
But Peter and the apostles answered, “We must obey God rather than men.

Some of you may think I am crazy and desperate for what I am about to say, but that’s ok. I know that I know that I know, that God showed me three things at the beginning of all this attack on my marriage.
1) May 13, 2012 – My husband will come home, once we both are healed as the spouse we need to be for each other, that puts God first.
(Pastor Jamie Massey teaching from May 13, 2012)
3) He is going to turn this around. March 1, 2013 @ the Fresh Manna, Women’s Retreat.

So I appreciate all of your prayers and continued encouragement. But I don’t want you thinking that God changed his mind or let me down. This is all part of his plan. Continue with me to agree for Marriage and Family Restoration. I never came into contract with Will and God, only Covenant (promise) with them. And God is not a man that he should lie or change his mind. Praise God for this day, as I am. The devil HAS NOT WON!!